I suggested to him that that the media was relentlessly beating the drums of the "us versus them" nonsense. They were also hard at work peddling the old "rich versus the not rich" malarkey. I then suggested that it might also be called the issue of the "have and have not" segments of modern society. We agreed that forces seemed to be hard at work driving wedges between the various parts of society. Can you really say that this is not what is happening?
We in the fire service are caught up in the midst of this by virtue of the fact that we are a public (or de facto public) entity. We will be crammed into the middle of this battle regard of which way it will be played out. The problem with battles like this is that there are no hard and fast rules. Too much of our individual feelings and opinions are left to be colored by our individual perspective. What you see and what I see is based upon our personal list of life experiences. I am what I am (much like Popeye the Sailor Man), and you are who you are. That's just the way it is and always will be.
Let's face facts my friends, jealously is alive and well in 21st Century America. I have worked for what I have. The chief with whom I was conversing worked for what he has. However for those who have labored valiantly and not achieved what we have, well, the 'green-eyed monster" of jealousy is hard at work. Folks only look at what we have and not how we worked to earn it.
Maybe I am an odd duck after all. I don't care how much the rich have. I do not care whether they earned it or inherited it. That is none of my business. My life has been fairly simple. I wanted to marry my high school sweetheart and was fortunate enough to have been allowed that joyous privilege. I wanted to be a fireman and so it has been for the better part of the last five decades. One of my childhood dreams was to be a U.S. Army officer like my dad. Through a very strange and convoluted set of circumstances, this too became a reality. Like my buddies in the Newark Fire Department are so fond of saying, "…who has it better than you?"
Ladies and gentlemen, I do not care what you have. I can only worry about things which I can control. When I think charity is called for I contribute my time, my talents, and my treasures. Unfortunately, forces are at work in society whose ultimate aim seems to be the disruption of our society. These folks want to rend horribly asunder the delicate fabric which is our society and which is what separates us from other nations and their diverse, dangerous, and divisive problems.
As one of the 48 percent of the population who actually pays taxes to our government, I am sick and tired of being told how I need to work a little harder so that I can share with those who
are less fortunate. Folks, I just want you to know one important fact. I donate to a wide variety of charities and give food to my local food bank. I am supporting two great young ladies from my church who are serving as missionaries in foreign lands. My wife and I do what we can. But we do have limits.
Perhaps we, as a nation, need to worry less about what the next person has and more about what we can do to strengthen our community. As we watch the arrayed forces of the political world battle the macro-level forces which are attacking our nation and its economy we need to focus inwardly to the micro level. We need to determine what we can do for ourselves, our families, and our communities, and then do it.
Would I like to have more money and a nicer house? Who wouldn't? But I am going to take up arms and storm the castle in search of the king, so that I can cut off his head and plunder his treasury? No my friends, not in this lifetime. I will always be an obedient citizen, peaceful within the laws of the land.
So how do we approach the next civil war which seems to be brewing on CNN, Fox News, and MSNBC? We must decide what we cannot do and refuse to waste time and resources tilting at windmills (see also Don Quixote). We must decide what we can do and then devote our best resources to doing it. Sometimes it is hard to avoid being sucked into the mob mentality. But we must avoid being sucked into the vortex of a dangerous and destructive maelstrom of improperly thought out actions. We must speak forcefully in support of our beliefs.