Our dept. does not have an organized auxillary. Those of us who have been around awhile do value the support of some of the F/F's wives who have supported us. We have had wives show up on the 3 am working fires making coffee and setting up drinks and getting food. They were there in the snowstorms and cold for us. When one was taken from us, the dept. as well as neighboring depts. turned out to pay tribute.
More and more the Red cross and Salvation Army are also there for us and the residents who need them.
Believe me there are many who really do value the people who help us keep others safe. Some take it for granted, even myself at times.