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    "Neb. Safe Haven Law Draws Criticism
    With Abandonment of Out-of-State Teen, Calls to Change State Law Increase
    By SCOTT MICHELS
    Oct. 9, 2008


    The parental abandonment of yet another teenager -- this time from out of state -- under Nebraska's controversial safe haven law has prompted calls for revising the law and focused attention on the plight of overwhelmed parents.

    (ABCNews Photo Illustration)Since the law went into effect in July, 17 children, ages 1 to 17, have been dropped off at hospitals and police stations by parents or guardians who said they could no longer take care of them. None of the children was in immediate danger, according to the Nebraska governor's office.

    Though every state has a safe haven law, which allows parents to leave their infants with government agencies without fear of prosecution, Nebraska is the only state that allows parents to give up any "child" under 18.

    Abandonment can have a devastating impact on older children, child welfare experts say."

    "Abandonment validates their worst fears and gives them proof that they don't have a secure spot in their families," said Lisa Blunt, therapy and support director at Child Saving Institute, which runs a children's emergency shelter in Omaha. "The message they take away is that they're not worth caring for. That in turn has a life-long impact on their ability to trust others and form relationships."

    Children's rights advocates and state officials, including one-time supporters of the law, called the abandonments a misuse of a measure designed in most cases to protect infants.

    "Safe haven legislation is designed to prevent infants from being left outside or left unattended," said Nebraska Gov. Dave Heinman. "Safe haven laws were not designed to allow families having difficulty with older youth and teenagers to abandon their children or responsibilities as parents."

    State Sen. Arnie Stuthman, co-author of the bill, originally wanted it to apply only to infants but agreed to expand it to apply to all children. "This has exploded in our face," he said.

    Legislators have vowed to change the laws, though not everyone agrees that it should be limited to infants and it's not clear when changes would be made. A hearing on the issue is scheduled for next month, and it's possible no changes will be made until the next legislative session in January.

    Sen. Brad Ashford, chairman of the Nebraska Legislature's Judiciary Committee, said the law should continue to apply to all children.

    A Nebraska law allows anyone, not just a parent, to abandon a child at any state-licensed hospital. The law doesn't further define child, and some have interpreted that to mean anyone in Nebraska under the age of 19.
    (Nati Harnik/AP Photo)"I don't think the law is causing problems -- the problem is out there," he said. "The law is in fact just highlighting what is out there. These family issues need to be addressed."

    The abandonments, which began last month, have focused attention on what advocates say is lack of resources for beleaguered parents. In many cases, parents who have abandoned their children in recent months told authorities that the kids were out of control or suffered from mental health issues.

    Gary Staton left nine of his 10 children, ages 1 to 17, at a hospital last month. Staton told Omaha TV station KETV that after his wife died early last year and he lost his job, "I didn't think I could do it alone. I fell apart. I couldn't take care of them."

    "I was able to get the kids to a safe place before they were homeless," he said. "I hope they know I love them. I hope their future is better without me around them."

    In the latest case, a 14-year-old girl from Iowa was abandoned by her grandmother at Creighton University Medical Center in Omaha, the first time a child from out of state has been abandoned under Nebraska's law.

    Roger Munns, a spokesman for the Iowa Department of Health Services, said Iowa officials planned to speak to the grandmother and that the girl could be placed in foster care in Nebraska or sent back to her family in Iowa.


    "Throwing up your hands and giving up on your child and taking them to Nebraska is not the way to handle a troubled teenager," he said.

    Though the law immunizes parents from prosecution in Nebraska, Todd Landry, director of the Division of Children and Family Services for the Department of Health and Human Services, suggested that the woman could be prosecuted in Iowa, which allows parents to give up children under its safe haven law until they are two weeks old.

    "Clearly this law had had unintended consequences. I think at this point it is very clear that Nebraska needs to provide a vehicle to help parents of challenged children," said Kathy Moore, director of Voices for Children, a child advocacy group. "Parents need to be able to come forward and say they need therapy, they need residential treatment" for their children. "

    Karen Authier, director of Nebraska Children's Center, a foster care agency, agreed there is a lack of mental health services for parents. "What this law has brought to the forefront is that there are families who are desperate enough that they want to give up their parenting role. The state needs to address that," she said. "They've opened Pandora's box."

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    Taxi Driver: Hero or Baby Dumper?Cash Offered for 'Baby Grace' IDShe said that most of the older children who have been abandoned have had serious behavior problems.

    Their reactions to abandonment "can range from anything from anger to guilt to sadness," she said. "The important thing is to talk them through those feelings and help prepare them from whatever the next steps are going to be."

    Landry denied that there were not enough services, saying that none of the parents who abandoned their children did so because they were unable to pay for services.

    He said the safe haven law should be changed. "It needs to get back to the original intent of the safe haven law," he said. "And that is a protection device for infants who are in immediate danger of being harmed."

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    That's just messed up.

    Children 1-17??? That is just a "get out of jail free" card for deadbeat parents. That's gotta change.
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    What's better? Leave the teenager with parents that can't handle raising them?
    "This thread is being closed as it is off-topic and not related to the fire industry." - Isn't that what the Off Duty forum was for?

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    Parents need to take the responsibility of being a parent or don't multiply.

    Family or friends are always better than social services.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dickey View Post
    Parents need to take the responsibility of being a parent or don't multiply.

    Family or friends are always better than social services.
    Hard to do when the welfare system encourages people ti have children without taking responsibility. Just another example of governments inability to run a program. Do you want these people handling your health insurance too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dickey View Post
    That's just messed up.

    Children 1-17??? That is just a "get out of jail free" card for deadbeat parents. That's gotta change.
    I agree, but better this than chopping them up and storing in a freezer for a few years. and I guess better than just letting them run wild too. Maybe?

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