Michael232:
I must state for the record my friend... you have class. I haven't seen too many guys that accept the plate of crow and eat it without issue.
Just take care of your guys and you will be fine.
The crew can make the officer.
The officer does not make himself. He only has to decide how far in front of the troops in rides while under fire.
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08-04-2010, 10:52 PM #41
HAVE PLAN.............WILL TRAVEL
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08-04-2010, 11:53 PM #43
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Never taking for granted that I'm privilged enough to have the greatest job in the world!
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08-05-2010, 02:12 AM #44
Is your last name Timex??? 'cause you took one helluva beating, and your still ticking.
I've heard it plenty of times that those that get promoted to Officer and higher grades, that they lose the fact and history of where they came from. From your OP, you sounded like one of them, if not worse.
I'll give you accolades on doing some inner soul searching, and more importantly, talking to your "crew/team" and asking those that are your equal for help and guidance. That says alot about one's self, and character.
Don't be surprised if the change in you, doesn't change the mindset of your Brothers.
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As long as you have the ability to take criticism, self evaluate, admit your mistakes, and learn from them, there may be hope for you yet. I always look at it this way (I am not a fire officer, but hold a similar position in my job), you are there to work for your crew, not the other way around. It is your job to ensure your crew has the tools, training, and support they need to get the job done.
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08-05-2010, 05:01 PM #47
By god sir, that's impressive. You got the hell beat out of you and you came back.
I'm glad you read the responses, and it appears you took them into consideration, and appears as though you are going to change things and apologize. In my eyes, being able to take constructive criticism (or the mild beating you got here), realizing your flaws, and working to correct them, makes a good officer.
Hope things work out better for you and your crew. Stay safe.
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08-05-2010, 08:02 PM #4855 Years & Still Rolling
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Well..........
After about 37 posts, I'd framed a reply.......... Never mind now. Mike, Good Luck to you. Not a lot of Folks that can accept advice like that and act on it.....
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08-05-2010, 09:45 PM #49
To wake up before shift change. Ours are at 7:15, shift change at 8am. It's like an alarm clock that comes in handy especially if you've had 5 or more runs after midnight. You know, wake up, toilet, brush teeth, break down bedding, go downstairs and have a cup of rotgut coffee, etc.
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08-07-2010, 11:51 AM #53
Best of luck Mike. The best officers are the ones who can take critizism and use it to better themselfs. Kudos bro
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11-01-2010, 06:55 PM #54
What I've learned the most from officers I've been around..... How NOT to act, and how NOT to treat the people under your command.
But I must say that is pretty stand up of you to come back on here and say you were wrong, and what you plan to do to rectify it. That is the making of a good officer.
Treat the people under your command with respect, accept input from them, praise them when they do a good job, don't berate or humiliate them when their actions are less than acceptable....rather explain what they did wrong and explain what you expect in the future, when there is work to be done (in the firehouse or on the scene) get your hands dirty too, be firm and confident when you make a decision....you get the idea....LEAD in this fashion and your crew will follow you in the depths of he!! w/a water can...LEAD in this fashion and you will very rarely will have to give an order....LEAD in this fashion and they will make you look like the best officer in the whole department, they will defend you whenever an outsider crticizes you...
Isnt that what every officer wants?
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Wait a minute... You've been in a major CAREER department for 6 YEARS and promoted to Lieutenant and you're just learning this after talking to two chiefs??
Except for showing up 1 1/2 hours early and demanding 45 second response times I learned most of that after less than 6 months on a volunteer fire department. wow.
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11-04-2010, 04:54 PM #56
Son, let me lay this on you.
I was on the job for 40 years plus.
I relieved as my relief man wanted to be.
Normally when I was an firefighter and officer, I was in the fire house about 6 AM. Why? Because that is when my relief man wasted to be relieved.
When I rode the Battalion Car, I was at the Battatlion Office no later than 5:45 AM to sit down with the off going chief and go over the past days work. I was also relieved the next morning by this same chief or another, on a different shirt and we went over my past day.
I never ordered any of my members to be in 1 to 1-1/2 hours prior to normal shift change and in no way would I have ordered anyone to report for duty in the fire house at 5:30 AM. or 0530 which ever you know the best!
You are a dictator my friend and I am surprised someone hasn't preferred charges on you!Stay Safe and Well Out There....
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A long time ago I heard a firefighter tell a story of what he said to his new officer when he made unrealistic demands on his crew and followed it up with the "There is no I in team speech." He looked across the table and said "You are right sir, there is no I in team, but there is a U in Nut."
My advice lighten up a bit. Don't expect people to be as consumed by the job as you are. AND... if you seriously believe it takes an hour and a half to check out a rig in the morning then schedule the time to do it during regular working hours.
Good luck.“The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.” Leo F. Buscaglia
This place gets weirder and weirder every day...
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11-05-2010, 09:55 AM #60
Guys read the f*ckin thread....it was resolved already.
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